My, oh my. Holiday stress here.
I always try to finish my Christmas shopping before Thanksgiving, but since we had children, it did not happen anymore. In fact, my Christmas shopping has become such a horrible thing that I'm scared every year.
Well, this year I decided to get everything under control and enjoy Christmas again. I returned to my Christian brothers.
Christmas can have tremendous tension in your relationship when you are stressing and usually comes from what you are the least. Holiday stress can be so bad that you forget the most important person in your life. Your partner?
So here are some things we've done here (and some other ideas that can help you).
1. Buy online
This year I have acquired online much more than ever. It's amazing how much you can do in just about an hour when you shop for your computer. No lines, no traffic. Pajamas and hot cocoa. How could she make shopping more relaxed than this? Make fun with your loved one and have fun, not frightening. (If it becomes stressful for you, just stop and finish it later
2. Do not promote gifts
I have a mother who is very difficult to buy, worrying and humiliating over many years every year, I've taken things and exchanged them on holiday I've lost my mind about how much she wants or does not believe In fact, gifts that you see see how stupid it is. This is not a great decision of your life, Amazon is great for a single trade
Find a good gift
Forget about it
Forget about it
Give gifts must feel no joy or stress
3. Measure your actions
You should not accept all your speeches Everyone is busy and you realize that if you can not participate in any activity (And if your friend / family does not understand it, they are selfish and you should not think about what they think) This is my opinion, by the way.
Last year, we denied a number of events and were much lower. In this cave this year we are determined to simplify.
4. Distribute your activity.
My expanded family Christmas is the week preceding this year. For this reason, and we have made some changes, we only need to pass a Christmas day to Christmas and only have to help prepare one meal. (I can only feel that stress leaves my body when I think about it). You can celebrate the joys and love of any day season, and new traditions just await you to discover.
5. The schedule during the last night of the season
During all the shock and confusion of celebrations everyone should have a little R & R timetable at least one day or evening, and that's just about you as a couple : THEY HAVE NOT APPLY ABOUT THE GENOCIDE You can do this on another day's schedule.
Find some fun work that encourages physical contact. Go for a walk and hold your hands. Take a carriage ride and intertwine together. The possibilities are endless. Scientists have proven that physical contact reduces the stress level in our bodies, so use the time of certain reunion to reduce your stress and simultaneously strengthen your relationships.
Keep in mind that relations are like a bank. You need to make deposits if you want to take something when it is needed.
6. Get your partner to communicate in your relationship
Items can reach as much as you want. Girls, if you are always sleeping in a pajamas or sweatshoes, get something to swim to sleep. Then throw a clean thing for a guy with some candles. Put it all in a beautiful box or cart and give it as an early Christmas gift. (Children can do it for your daughter too).
You will be amazed at how little gesture can be of greater importance in your relationship.
In fact, my husband wrote a booklet a few years ago, and that is not her favorite gift anyway.
Do you have some ideas? Here you go
1. You have a candlestick picnic on the floor of your room.
2. Rent a hotel room for one night, which has a fireplace and a hot pool.
3. Take hot coffee or cocoa butter and drive to Christmas lights.
4. Go to the Christmas movie together after a beautiful dinner (Old classic)
5. Go to a nice restaurant for coffee and dessert
6. Take a hot balloon together
More ideas you can apply now and year on our site. It's packed with full tips and ideas that you can easily integrate into your everyday life.
When did you read all this, Christmas is really fun, right?
So, let's make everything the happiest, simplest holiday season. Do not let the festive stress this year be yours. It's your Christmas! Take It Back!